Is it the guy or the girl who asks for a date?

Talk about dating, breaking up, getting married, etc. This is where you can talk about units 2 & 4 in Authentic English Readings for Advanced Students.
woogayeon(sixzero7)
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Re: Is it the guy or the girl who asks for a date?

Post by woogayeon(sixzero7) »

I did not know that who dominating the relationship is important thing.
If who persons truely love each other, is it possible one person dominates their relationship?
I do not think this is possible, And is it important "will you go out with me?" first? I don't think so.
Even though I am a girl I think girls can ask boy to go out first.
But it become like a 'custom' that boy said that words first. So it is true girls usually wait to hear that words.
But I think it is because of our traditional women's model.

(sixzero7)Leekwanhee
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Re: Is it the guy or the girl who asks for a date?

Post by (sixzero7)Leekwanhee »

I think it depens on you.
If the couple really love each other, asking for a date doesn't matter.
Asking for a date might be difficult for a girl.
But now many girls are positive to express their opinion.
And I think 밀당 is not always good for realationship.
Sometimes 밀당 makes more problem.

101leegunyoung
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Re: Is it the guy or the girl who asks for a date?

Post by 101leegunyoung »

I think that it is not a fixed thing.common idea 'boy have to asks for a date' is just shallow culture. we don't have to follow that.
it is depend on 'who is more brave'.

Mr21
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Re: Is it the guy or the girl who asks for a date?

Post by Mr21 »

Well on some countries from America it's normal that the women's ask to the men's if they want a date. Some women's think that we are in others age and they can do that, even they can pay the check. Bring you a ride, but you need buy her flowers and be special and charming. If you do that at the end of the night you could have a happy sending

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